Ack, I've been debating returning to LJ for the very simple fact that no one leaves me notes (*cough*Christi*cough*). It's a bit defeating, you know. She's getting married, and I love that she's sharing it with me. The ideas, the thoughts, the feelings...it's wonderful. I hope I can be there...whenever it's happening that is ;) I remember when her and Rocky got together and she suddenly lost all interest in the person whom she had feelings for. I completely understand how that works, as I was twisted around a guy when I met Chris. Things just change when you realize that you don't have to work so god damn hard for love. It's just natural. You don't have to chase (...although it's fun), you don't have to play hard to get (...okay that is fun too) and you know you get to be with them, and they want to be with you. No guessing or wondering whether they have feelings for you. It just is. That's it. Love is. It just is.